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Memoirs of a DIVA Week 7: Reflection

Updated: Aug 23, 2021

During a Love Coaching Collective call this week, Shay asked me to reflect on the things I noticed about myself when I started the program, but continued to work on and have seen progress in.

When I first started, I was:

  1. Very controlling and highly in my masculine energy.

  2. Feeling bad for past decisions + hard on myself.

  3. My story was stuck on the past + traumas.

  4. Getting readings done multiple times a week because I did not trust myself and my intuition.

  5. Shocked to hear about my past and was processing it daily.

  6. Fearful of selecting the wrong guy because of my need: certainty.

I can proudly say that I am now more in my feminine energy than ever before. I now welcome and receive help from others.

I no longer feel bad about my past. Instead, I take what I’ve learned and correlate it to what I’m learning from D.I.V.A. University. My past does not equal my future…

I don’t get readings anymore. I’ve learned to trust myself + my intuition, as I am the master of my destiny.

I’ve forgiven people in my life and those from my past. Even to the point where I don’t want nor need them in my life.

I can honestly say that today, I’m confident in myself to attract and pick my divinely selected perfect partner. What’s for me is for me…and my perfect partner is for ME.

This program, and Shay, have brought me closer to God. Before the program, I was honestly mad at God. I just couldn’t understand how God could’ve allowed all that happened to me, happen. I know better now and take responsibility for my own decisions. It’s pretty amazing how many ways I’ve changed. Now I thank God for placing Shay in my path.

I’ve developed more of a daily routine. I make an effort with my appearance every day. I disliked shopping before, but I enjoy it now. My desire in life was to empower and uplift women, and since starting the program, I desire to do it more than ever.

I’m applying what I’ve learned to all of my relationships. My family can see a difference in me. I’m an improved version of myself.

I write this blog entry to say a couple of things:

  • Trust the Process: Everything Shay has in place was downloaded from God. I don’t know about you, but for years I always wanted a sign or lesson plan from God. Everything you need to know about love and how to love yourself is within this program.

  • Women Empowerment is everything: It’s an honor having met so many beautiful and amazing women not only in this program but in Shay’s lives. In a world that has worked so hard to suppress the power within a woman, it’s refreshing to be a part of a community that lifts you up and reveals how amazing you are. We lift each other up and motivate each other. I’m a much happier person in general.

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