The Diva Diaries is a weekly blog series chronicling the experience of a DIVA University student and client. For privacy purposes, the author chooses to remain anonymous, but in doing so, is able to candidly and unabashedly pour her heart out to readers while documenting her journey.
Last week, I had the pleasure of attending Shay’s “Secrets of a Master Seductress” virtual workshop. It was over 10 hours split into three evenings and it was the MASTER crash course in seduction and feminine power. I checked in with my accountability partners after the workshop, and the consensus was just, “wow.” We had to pick our jaws up off the floor. Where, I ask, was this workshop 20 years ago? 10 years ago? I could have saved myself a WORLD of heartache and confusion if I had learned this information when I was younger. I know I say this all the time, but Diva University was the best money I've ever spent. Shay spent that time teaching us what seduction is, the power of seduction, and best of all–the seduction mindset. She told us, she showed us, and she demonstrated everything we needed to know to become master seducresses. I gained so much great information, including physical skills that I’ve been able to practice out in the world. One of the areas of DIVA University that I’ve really needed to hone is activating my feminine energy and my feminine power. Admittedly, when I started DIVA U, I had spent a lifetime operating mostly in my masculine energy. I thought that feminine energy was weak, powerless, and childlike. Looking back on some of the moments in my life where I’ve been able to attract a relationship, I was being inauthentically feminine. It’s no wonder I have not quite been able to attract my soulmate (yet!). I have never felt more powerful in my life. Again, what makes Shay’s teachings so solid is that she uses science. So, even if someone has a hard time getting in touch with their spiritual side, they can at least trust the science behind what Shay teaches us. Without getting into too much detail, I’ll give you a couple of the topics to snack on: 1. How to stop a man in his tracks simply through eye contact and a smile 2. Chakra firing 3. Sexual transmutation In addition to these, Shay answered my prayers and taught us how to be seductresses through words so that we could attract more high-quality men on dating apps. She simulated conversations, provided examples of flirtatious answers and responses, and showed us how to even set up a conversation so that a man will ask for a date. I used her techniques, and was asked out for a date this weekend! I started off slowly last week, and practiced being in my feminine energy and using my feminine power for good. I had a work event to attend with some of the executives at the company I work for. I work in a male-dominated industry, and I work closely with the CEO of my company, who is a billionaire. When I first started in the role a little over two years ago, I could sense that he didn’t take to me too well. Whenever I was in his presence, I had nervous energy that wanted to control the circumstances and it made me come off unconfident, neurotic, and insecure. I thought that if I acted controlling that it would make him think that I cared about my job as much as I did. But that never worked. Last week, however, I noticed that not only am I just moving in my feminine energy more effortlessly and naturally, but I could see how it was being received. Male colleagues were approaching me to have conversations. I practiced smiling (even behind my mask) at other men at the event, and got smiles in return. One of my sisters in DIVA University attended the workshop. When she went to the grocery store, she decided to practice some of the techniques we learned from Shay. She said she was able to get TWO men to turn around and smile at her while in the store, and another man carried her bags out to the car and opened the door for her. Last week, the morning after the last night of the workshop, I walked into the gas station to get a coffee. I was dressed down, as it was a work from home day. I had a mask on and everything. A man in one of the aisles looked right up at me and said, “good morning!” enthusiastically. I replied and smiled at him. He proceeded to strike up a conversation with me, and even make a joke before telling me to have a nice day. My mind is BLOWN! One of my other DIVA Sisters, who is now in an exclusive relationship with a wonderful man, sat in on the workshop as well. The great thing about the Secrets of a Master Seductress Workshop was that it taught skills that can be applied to relationships for the rest of our lives. Even when we are wives! The information was so important to hear, I can’t stress it enough. It was a life-changing experience. I felt emboldened to walk through the world in my feminine power, and I am so grateful that I feel more powerful than ever as a result. For more information on Secrets of a Master Seductress, or to enroll in Seductress Academy, go to seductressacademy.com. Photo Source: Katerina Holmes via Pexels.com